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birthday party and sth else
Sep. 29th, 2008 06:34 pmfirst. thanks for all your birthday wishes and/or presents!! ♥
i was so happy!!♥♥
my party on friday was so good~ hehe
though before i had to clean up all the rooms downstairs, bake cake, cook, ... just as usual days XD
but then i took so much time to style XDDD
as i'm just at home all these weeks i never dress up or something... so it was fun XD
then i waited for everyone to come...
we had dinner together <3
then we went upstairs inmy my sister's room.
we played sing star... i had to sing german songs i had never heard before |D
anyway, fun <333
after that alisa, isi and me switched to my computer ;3
and later we sang karaoke hehehehe (with karaoke pvs)
so much fun~~ ♪♪♪
but around 11pm suddenly the others wanted to leave.... dondake?! so early T-T
alisa was sleeping over so at least i wasn't alone yet xD
we went outside a little.... and then we came back to my computer, watching lots of arashi things (youtube, pvs, performances)
actually we planned to watch hanadan finale... but around 1.30am or 2 am we started to sing karaoke again |D
and then alisa was tired...so we went to bed ^-^;
the next morning we watched the end of hanadan finale <333
(we both had seen the movie before :3)
but then her father came and picked her up....
but i really enjoyed all that!! ♥
(just... i forgot to take pictures ^^°)
then on saturday was my brother's birthday party ^0^
and in the evening i went to church -> youth service.
first time for weeks!!!
because i usually have to work saturday nights...
so happy because i also get to see regina and sarah, ne. <33
sunday service was so great, too. *o*
but i had to work from 11.30~ so i had to leave service earlier .__.
and uhm...i worked until 10pm.
SO DEAD after that X__X
hahahaha
now about girl & baby.
so franzi finally realized that her husband just....used her.
or...she realized it before but never admitted.
it reminds me of last friends so much!!
though different of course.
but that guy never allowed her to have contact to her friends from her home (she used to live like 4 hours away) or...to her family/mother even.
she had to borrow money so that he is able to smoke.
he ordered things and she had to pay.
in the end she has so many debts because of him.
she wasn't allowed to go outside here and make friends. but he would just do so.
he had contact with some people by cellphone but wouldn't say the truth about who that is.
and right now he is supposed to look for a new apartment. already had 6 weeks or so.
he says he's soooo busy. but wth?! he's doing nothing but using the money he gets as soon as he gets it.
on the one hand i'm really glad that she finally doesn't want to go back and she says it!!
(i mean... why didn't she say that she doesn't wanna go back earlier???)
on the other hand it must be really tough. now she's alone with the baby.
but... she'll go back to her hometown. her family can help her. she has friends there.
there might be a future for her & the baby boy.
back to her husband... there's NO FUTURE. (as he's unemployed, it doesn't seem as if he wants to work at all and he is full of debts and lies!)
we'll contact the youth advice center soon and hope we can get her things out of that place. we might involve the police. because franzi said she's afraid of her husband now.
that sounds just so...wow. when she arrived her she said she misses him and can't sleep well because she's homesick and all. but now. she wants to leave him.
i'm trying my best to comfort her... well, i always did the last weeks ne~
okay, let's stop here.
( some pictures!! )
i was so happy!!♥♥
my party on friday was so good~ hehe
though before i had to clean up all the rooms downstairs, bake cake, cook, ... just as usual days XD
but then i took so much time to style XDDD
as i'm just at home all these weeks i never dress up or something... so it was fun XD
then i waited for everyone to come...
we had dinner together <3
then we went upstairs in
we played sing star... i had to sing german songs i had never heard before |D
anyway, fun <333
after that alisa, isi and me switched to my computer ;3
and later we sang karaoke hehehehe (with karaoke pvs)
so much fun~~ ♪♪♪
but around 11pm suddenly the others wanted to leave.... dondake?! so early T-T
alisa was sleeping over so at least i wasn't alone yet xD
we went outside a little.... and then we came back to my computer, watching lots of arashi things (youtube, pvs, performances)
actually we planned to watch hanadan finale... but around 1.30am or 2 am we started to sing karaoke again |D
and then alisa was tired...so we went to bed ^-^;
the next morning we watched the end of hanadan finale <333
(we both had seen the movie before :3)
but then her father came and picked her up....
but i really enjoyed all that!! ♥
(just... i forgot to take pictures ^^°)
then on saturday was my brother's birthday party ^0^
and in the evening i went to church -> youth service.
first time for weeks!!!
because i usually have to work saturday nights...
so happy because i also get to see regina and sarah, ne. <33
sunday service was so great, too. *o*
but i had to work from 11.30~ so i had to leave service earlier .__.
and uhm...i worked until 10pm.
SO DEAD after that X__X
hahahaha
now about girl & baby.
so franzi finally realized that her husband just....used her.
or...she realized it before but never admitted.
it reminds me of last friends so much!!
though different of course.
but that guy never allowed her to have contact to her friends from her home (she used to live like 4 hours away) or...to her family/mother even.
she had to borrow money so that he is able to smoke.
he ordered things and she had to pay.
in the end she has so many debts because of him.
she wasn't allowed to go outside here and make friends. but he would just do so.
he had contact with some people by cellphone but wouldn't say the truth about who that is.
and right now he is supposed to look for a new apartment. already had 6 weeks or so.
he says he's soooo busy. but wth?! he's doing nothing but using the money he gets as soon as he gets it.
on the one hand i'm really glad that she finally doesn't want to go back and she says it!!
(i mean... why didn't she say that she doesn't wanna go back earlier???)
on the other hand it must be really tough. now she's alone with the baby.
but... she'll go back to her hometown. her family can help her. she has friends there.
there might be a future for her & the baby boy.
back to her husband... there's NO FUTURE. (as he's unemployed, it doesn't seem as if he wants to work at all and he is full of debts and lies!)
we'll contact the youth advice center soon and hope we can get her things out of that place. we might involve the police. because franzi said she's afraid of her husband now.
that sounds just so...wow. when she arrived her she said she misses him and can't sleep well because she's homesick and all. but now. she wants to leave him.
i'm trying my best to comfort her... well, i always did the last weeks ne~
okay, let's stop here.
( some pictures!! )
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